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What Is the Difference Between Premature Ejaculation and Erectile Dysfunction?

And how do I deal?

6 Things You Should Have Learned In Sex Ed But Probably Didn’t

Spoiler alert: Sex is supposed to be fun.

How to Prep for Anal Like A Pro

Anal Sex Prep 101

The Question That Changed Everything

Why we actually need to talk about sex.

Ask Gigi: My Partner Won’t Go Down On Me

Is he a f*ckboi or nah?

Painful Sex? 7 Signs You Might Have Vaginismus

If you experience pain during sex, pay attention

Popping the Myth of the Cherry ?

For centuries, people have thought that a woman’s virginity could be proven by her hymen. But what even is a hymen? And what does it mean to “pop your cherry”?

What Is Squirting?

And what’s up with our fascination?

Step Up Your Condom Game

Protection is pleasure.

Spectatoring: How to Stop Getting Distracted During Sex and Fully Embrace Your Pleasure

Is spectatoring blocking your pleasure? Some wild thoughts have no place in your bedroom

How to Have Same-Sex Safe Sex

Have the same genitals as your partner? Let’s talk about it!

What’s Up With Going Down? Exploring the ‘Taboo’ of Oral Sex

BJs are expected, but going down isn’t? Let’s talk about oral sex equality.

What Happened to My Sex Drive?

Seriously, where did my libido go?

Want a Powerful Orgasm? Try Womanizer

This sex toy company developed orgasm-inducing technology to blow your mind and your clitoris.

5 Tips for Watching Porn With Your Partner to Boost Intimacy

Porn doesn’t have to be a red flag in your relationship. In fact, it can actually be an asset to spicing up your sex life.

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5 Steps to Prepare for Your First Therapy Session and Find the Right Therapist

How to approach your first therapy session and determine if you’ve found the right therapist.

5 Steps You Can Take to Support a Loved One With a Mental Illness

Is a friend or family member struggling with their mental health? Here’s how you can help.

The Beginner’s Guide to Finding and Choosing The Right Sex Therapist

What is sex therapy? Is it for me? How do I find the right sex therapist?

5 Easy Acts of Self-Care to Thrive During the Holidays

This season of giving, don’t forget to give yourself a little love!

Powerful Women in History & Their Mental Health

These amazing women are proof that mental illness does not determine your success.

Getting to Know “Straight Friendly” Psychotherapist Adam Maurer

In this week’s Tell Me About Yourself, we’re celebrating Austin-based psychotherapist Adam Maurer, LMFT, LPC, who self-describes as “straight friendly.” Pretty awesome, I know. Check out the interview below!

This Founder is Bringing Quality CBD to Your Doorstep

Don’t worry, Alexis Rosenbaum has got your CBD needs covered.

A Guide to Practicing Self-Love Like a French Woman

How have French women nailed the art of authentic self-care?

What is Mindful Sex? How to Keep Your Mind from Wandering During Sex

To turn your body on, you must first turn your brain off. Mindful sex will help you up your pleasure game.

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Sexting Tips from the Leading Expert in Seduction

New to sexting? Here’s what you need to know to keep it spicy, flirty, and absolutely irresistible (in a way that feels natural to you)

How Media & Culture Skew Our Ideas About Healthy Relationships

How are we supposed to know what a “normal” relationship looks like anyway?

How Hard Should You Try to Stay In a Relationship?

Sure, relationships take work…but how much is too much?

Should I Talk to My S.O. About My Period?

How to introduce the subject without weirdness.

Ask Gigi: My Partner Won’t Go Down On Me

Is he a f*ckboi or nah?

Are You Good at Apologizing? Here’s How You Could Be Better

How to say sorry to the people you care about.

How To Make a Long-Distance Relationship Work

Distance doesn’t have to destroy your relationship. Here’s how you can make long-distance work for you.

5 Steps You Can Take to Support a Loved One With a Mental Illness

Is a friend or family member struggling with their mental health? Here’s how you can help.

How Do I Get My Partner to Wear a Condom?

Time to talk about safe sex. Like actually, you’re gonna have to talk.

5 Tips for Watching Porn With Your Partner to Boost Intimacy

Porn doesn’t have to be a red flag in your relationship. In fact, it can actually be an asset to spicing up your sex life.

Does Porn Have a Place in a Healthy Relationship? A Sexpert Weighs In

Is it okay if my partner watches porn? What if I feel threatened by porn? Here’s how porn can affect intimacy and relationship satisfaction and success in long-term couples.

Can You be Racist and Date Interracially?

The complex reality of interracial dating in a “Post-racial” America.

This Relationship Coach Wants You to Appreciate Yourself First

In this week’s Tell Me About Yourself, we’re highlighting NYC-based Relationship and Wellness Coach Shula Melamed, MA, MPH. Check out her interview answers below!

How Do I Actually Talk to My Partner About Sex?

You know, without being awkward.

The Four Sex Myths You Learned From Television

The media loves to talk about sex. Unfortunately, some of our most ubiquitous forms of media get a lot wrong when they take on sexual education.

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What Is the Difference Between Premature Ejaculation and Erectile Dysfunction?

And how do I deal?

HPV Vaccinations & Anal Pap Smears for Gay Men

What do I need to know about HPV as a gay man? Let’s talk about anal Pap smears.

Just How Often Are You Actually Supposed to Go to The Doctor?

You may be overdue for a check-up.

Oh, f*ck…Should I Take Plan B?

Have you had unprotected sex? Wondering if it’s too late to take Plan B? Don’t freak out. Here’s what you can do to prevent unintended pregnancy.

This Entrepreneur Is Bringing Self-Care to Your Vulva

What’s cooler than being cool? Private Packs: aka ice (and heat) packs for your vulva.

A Doctor and a Menstruator Explain Periods

What is it like to have a period? What really goes on during the menstrual cycle? Inquiring minds (of ALL genders) would like to know, seriously.

Here’s the Pelvic Floor-1-1

Once you learn about your pelvic floor, you’ll think it’s pretty cool.

Chronically Crazy: Life With Endometriosis

Living with a chronic illness is one thing; dealing with the outside perceptions is another.

My First Time …With A Menstrual Cup

You think you know your body until you have to figure out the size of your cervix.

How to Take Care…Down There: Sexual Self-Care for Males

What does self-care look like for people with penises?

Getting a Copper IUD Part 1: Choosing Birth Control

When condoms and Plan B won’t cut it anymore. Why I opted for the copper IUD.

Getting a Copper IUD Part 2: The Procedure

What it’s like to get an IUD (not that bad).

What To Do If Your Period is Painful AF

Some people can breeze through their periods unscathed (#blessed). And then there are the rest of us.

How Do STIs Impact Fertility?

Looking at STIs with regard to fertility and childbearing from the perspective of a sexual health and labor delivery nurse.

Are Cold Sores Herpes or What?

And what does it mean if I have one?

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Sexting Tips from the Leading Expert in Seduction

New to sexting? Here’s what you need to know to keep it spicy, flirty, and absolutely irresistible (in a way that feels natural to you)

Looking for a Casual Dating App That Puts Your Pleasure First? Look No Further Than the Hud App

Casual dating just got a whole lot easier (and a lot more fun) with this sex-positive dating app.

How to NOT Ghost Someone When You’re No Longer Feelin’ It

Casper is the only friendly ghost. Here are kind and compassionate ways of letting someone down when you are no longer interested.

The Best Dating App for You and How to Own Your Dating Life

The ultimate guide to dating apps for those who are over them and those who have yet to try!

Can You be Racist and Date Interracially?

The complex reality of interracial dating in a “Post-racial” America.

Who Should Pay on a Date?

“Splitting a check is not romantic, I don’t care what anyone says.”

A Serial Monogamist’s Guide to Non-monogamy

What it looks like to explore non-traditional relationship structures.

Dating With a Disability

Advice from an “inclusionista sexpert” on navigating dating and sex with a disability.