4 Porn Sites Featuring Real Attraction

If you can’t get off to mainstream porn, these sites are for you.

Do you ever feel weird about watching porn because you know the characters are just actors getting paid to have sex? Even if their performance is stellar, it’s obvious the f*cking didn’t happen organically. If this kind of unrealistic, mainstream porn doesn’t get you off, don’t lose hope — there’s something out there for everyone to masturbate to. Instead of watching featured money-shot videos on the “recently watched” homepage, check out these three porn sites that feature genuine attraction between the actors.

This can make you think that porn just isn’t for you. Thankfully, it might be that you’re looking in the wrong places. When the actors genuinely know one another and want to be sensual together the audience has a totally different experience. Instead of heading straight for the money shot or clicking your way through titles that make you uncomfortable, visit these four porn sites where attraction is the driving force behind the on-screen romance:

1. Lucie Makes Porn

French pornography writer, actress and director Lucie Blush curates this site of sexpositive, ethical porn. The actors have bodies that audiences can actually relate to, and the storylines range from a regular day cleaning the house to a kidnapping. The site aims to “reflect the reality of sexuality,” and honestly, it’s a pretty dreamy world. The actors and production crew are respectful to one another, and you’ll never find basic videos titled “sexy teen,” “hot pussy” or “milf” on this site. The actors make you feel like they actually want to have sex, which makes it easy to be pulled into the storyline.

2. CrashPadSeries

If you’re looking for a much more genderfluid, queer-friendly porn site, try CrashPadSeries. It’s based on the “queer sex cult classic” called “The Crash Pad.” Each film exists in a world where a queer person gets the key to the Crash Pad, a San Francisco apartment where they can enjoy their sexiest fantasies, but only seven times each. Once they reach the limit, the key must be passed to another horny person. The producers prefer working with local couples, play partners and crushes, so you don’t have to be a professional to be featured on the site.

3. A Four Chambered Heart

If you enjoy art films you’ll love diving into this Patreon-supported porn site created by performer Vex Ashley. By straying away from traditional adult industry practices, Ashley aims to use a provide a new perspective on porn.The site features DIY porn with intense lighting and angles that blur the lines between art and digital documentation. Ashley prefers to call performers “collaborators,” because to her, everyone is learning together as they influence and support one another, she explained in an interview. The films are based on the sexual ideas the collaborators want to put on screen. It’s clear that the strangers aren’t faking anything when they’re filmed — they exhibit and act upon genuine desires. To get a glimpse of Ashley’s artsy style, cough up a few bucks a month on Patreon for access to each monthly film release.

4. Bellesa

If you’re tired of clearing your browser history of crude adult content, check out this empowering site that’s “not just porn.” Alarmed by the overwhelming amount of porn that caters to just half the market’s population, Michelle Schnaidman developed an elegant, erotic — and did I mention free?—website built for women. While many of the featured videos are plucked from traditional sites like Pornhub, Bellesa’s curated collection is free of female objectification and ensures O-worthy content. For an alternate climactic experience, check out Bellesa’s erotic literature section.

UPDATE: After facing industry criticism for piracy and disempowering female sex workers and producers, Bellesa removed its video content on 9/21/17. Founder and CEO Michelle Shnaidman made a statement on Twitter apologizing and committing to “transition the entirety of the video section of Bellesa to feature exclusively videos that are in direct partnership with studios, and that compensate all fairly for their contribution.”

Must be looooooove on the braaaaain 🧠. Or was that s£x? 👀🤭 Our brains are our largest s£x organs and sometimes they get a little sad, hyperactive, anxious, or overwhelmed. You won’t always be in the mood for s£x and that’s okay! Keep communication with your partner open and ongoing, check in with yourself and your mental health, and lean on the support of a trusted therapist or doctor if you need some extra guidance. 🫶🏽 Anything you would add?

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It is not wrong nor should it feel shameful to ✨seek pleasure.✨ I think those of us who grew up more religious were taught that you should always be in service of others and giving of yourself rather than concerned with our own needs or passions. While it is wonderful to be generous with giving (and can in fact be a source of pleasure), it should be equally encouraged to pursue your own pleasure — it whatever form it may take! It may feel self-indulgent, but why is that a bad thing? Pleasure boosts our mental health. It helps us cope with a difficult world, with anxiety, depression, and stress. It makes us feel good! It gives us something to look forward to. Pleasure helps us connect with others and with ourselves. Pleasure (as long as it is not at the expense of someone else’s safety or well-being) should be a priority, for our joy and for our health. It really is so important! Where do you find pleasure? I personally love a good massage… 💆🏽‍♀️

It’s time for a talk, friend. Let’s be clear, you nor your partner ever has to do *anything* you’re not comfortable with. That said, if it’s something you enjoy and that’s pleasurable to you, it’s okay to ask your partner for it! They can say no, but if they invalidate your pleasure, much less expect you to do something they won’t do?? The ball is then in your court to decide if this is the partner for you. You deserve someone who cares about and prioritizes your pleasure. Who is thrilled to be acquainted with your body, all of it! S-x can be vulnerable to talk about, but when you do…it’s so much better. 👅 included. Ask your partner what their hesitations are and have a *conversation.* Maybe they’re nervous, intimidated, or struggling with shame. Maybe they’re down to try other things you would enjoy and build up to it. The point is, it shouldn’t just be automatically dismissed. You can decide what’s right for you and what makes you feel aroused, validated, and appreciated. Whatever you do, don’t internalize their rejection. Your body is beautiful, desirable, and definitely worthy of pleasure. 😋🥰

A UK study published in the International Urogynecology Journal found that only 46% of participants correctly identified that a female has 3 holes in the external genitalia. 😬 Not great. We’re taught so desperately little about our bodies and so discouraged from exploring them that we don’t even know what we’ve got going on down there! Understanding your own anatomy (and getting educated on your partner’s anatomy) can boost pleasure 1000x!! So take a mirror, use your hands, and get comfy exploring! 🪞🕵🏽‍♀️ And if you really want to get informed (and inspired 😉), head to our website for our basics on pleasure and anatomy. What do you think? Could YOU correctly label a diagram of what lies beneath?

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