Add Some Masturbation Magic to Your Self-care Routine With this Sweet Vibes Waterproof Wand

This Sweet Vibes waterproof wand is what your self-care routine has been missing. Prepare to be charmed.

This article was created in partnership with Sweet Vibes.

If my masturbation journey has taught me anything so far, it’s that self-pleasure is the best form of self-care. For as long as I can remember, masturbation has been an integral activity for me, especially during times of uncertainty, stress, and personal growth. However, growing up, I received shameful messages about self-pleasure and the depictions that I saw of masturbation on television did not reflect my personal experiences in real life. Now, as a young adult, my methods for masturbation are not only for pleasure, but also to enhance my personal journey as a sexual being. Part of enhancing my sexual journey looks like exploring my satisfaction through sex toys like the collection of innovative, fun products from Sweet Vibes, a San Diego-based adult boutique that embraces the taboo of sexual wellness instead of hiding it. 

The mission behind Sweet Vibes’ brand is that “masturbation is a vital part of a self-care routine — whether you’re screaming its praises from the mountaintops, enjoying yourself in the solitude of your bedroom, or sharing it alongside a partner. Simply put, we strive to be the leaders that inspire womxn to embark on their own sexual wellness journey.” I personally found that to be especially true after using their new, well-engineered wand, Charmed.

So of all sex toys, why include a wand vibrator in your collection?

Since the 1970s, wands (commonly known as the “Hitachi Magic Wand”) have been a best-seller in sex tech, quickly becoming the cornerstone of sex toys. Part of the appeal is attributed to its multi-faceted design. The cylindrical-shaped head of the vibrator is designed for high-intensity direct clitoral stimulation, which is ideal considering recent data shows us that 66.6 percent of people with vulvas report a preference for being touched directly on the clitoris.

Charmed specifically includes a curved tip to the spherical backside to provide an enveloping sensation made to curve, flex, and fit into any vulva. Now that we’ve covered the basics, let me feel you in on the steamy details of my personal experience!

Sweet Vibrations Charmed Wand by Leonor Carvalho

My masturbation experience with Charmed – a wand by Sweet Vibes

As I stated earlier, masturbation means the most to me during times of challenge and personal growth because it helps me learn more about myself and my bodily desires. Based on conversations with peers and most depictions of masturbation on television, I, along with many others in my friend group, assumed that self-pleasure was only done on one’s back while using their fingers rather than sex toys. Luckily, the composition of Sweet Vibes’ Charmed fits more with the way that I masturbate, further improving my sexual wellness journey. One of the best facets of this wand is that it caters to my specific needs for gratification because it’s easy to maneuver and it covers a lot of surface area. As someone who masturbates on my stomach, I appreciate that this vibrator is easy to control. I can easily align it in necessary ways to indulge in the gentle rumbles and massage-like motions that mimic the rubbing sensation I need for gratification.

I also value that Charmed is 100% waterproof so it can tag along with me in the bathtub or shower on sensual occasions. This wand full of magic is also made with medical-grade silicone, allowing for a soft, silky feeling at each touch. 

Aside from pleasure, there are other reasons why masturbation is an example of self-care:

1. It’s the safest form of sexual activity. The chances of becoming pregnant or contracting a sexually transmitted infection through masturbation are almost non-existent (though, you could contract genital herpes if you touched a cold sore and then touched your genitals).

1. It helps relieve built-up stress. Giving yourself your next “O” through sex toys can help release happy chemicals into your body such as dopamine, endorphins, and oxytocin, which are neurotransmitters that can bring about positive feelings. Orgasms also release prolactin, a hormone that triggers relaxation. Naturally, helping yourself relax through a self-induced orgasm can help you unwind at the end of a busy day.

2. Exploring what gets you off the best can help you feel more self-assured in your sexuality. Unfortunately, many people feel embarrassed and even ashamed of their desire for sex and masturbation. Going to sex shops or discussing sex and masturbation can cause major anxiety. Masturbation is one of the best ways to build sexual confidence, embrace your body, and explore a plethora of your body’s pleasure spots.

I have had quite the journey with masturbation, from the curious yet unsure adolescent that I once was to the self-assured 24-year old that I am now. That is why it feels all the more liberating to express my sexual desires through self-pleasure as a form of self-care, despite living in a culture that deems masturbation “taboo.” From now on, I will continue to use my orgasmic journey as a way to get to know myself sexually and encourage everyone else to do so, too!

For further information and updates on Sweet Vibes, stay connected:

Website: https://sweetvibes.toys/
Email: customerservice@sweetvibes.toys
Instagram: @sweetvibrations
Twitter: @sweetvibessocial

Must be looooooove on the braaaaain 🧠. Or was that s£x? 👀🤭 Our brains are our largest s£x organs and sometimes they get a little sad, hyperactive, anxious, or overwhelmed. You won’t always be in the mood for s£x and that’s okay! Keep communication with your partner open and ongoing, check in with yourself and your mental health, and lean on the support of a trusted therapist or doctor if you need some extra guidance. 🫶🏽 Anything you would add?

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It is not wrong nor should it feel shameful to ✨seek pleasure.✨ I think those of us who grew up more religious were taught that you should always be in service of others and giving of yourself rather than concerned with our own needs or passions. While it is wonderful to be generous with giving (and can in fact be a source of pleasure), it should be equally encouraged to pursue your own pleasure — it whatever form it may take! It may feel self-indulgent, but why is that a bad thing? Pleasure boosts our mental health. It helps us cope with a difficult world, with anxiety, depression, and stress. It makes us feel good! It gives us something to look forward to. Pleasure helps us connect with others and with ourselves. Pleasure (as long as it is not at the expense of someone else’s safety or well-being) should be a priority, for our joy and for our health. It really is so important! Where do you find pleasure? I personally love a good massage… 💆🏽‍♀️

It’s time for a talk, friend. Let’s be clear, you nor your partner ever has to do *anything* you’re not comfortable with. That said, if it’s something you enjoy and that’s pleasurable to you, it’s okay to ask your partner for it! They can say no, but if they invalidate your pleasure, much less expect you to do something they won’t do?? The ball is then in your court to decide if this is the partner for you. You deserve someone who cares about and prioritizes your pleasure. Who is thrilled to be acquainted with your body, all of it! S-x can be vulnerable to talk about, but when you do…it’s so much better. 👅 included. Ask your partner what their hesitations are and have a *conversation.* Maybe they’re nervous, intimidated, or struggling with shame. Maybe they’re down to try other things you would enjoy and build up to it. The point is, it shouldn’t just be automatically dismissed. You can decide what’s right for you and what makes you feel aroused, validated, and appreciated. Whatever you do, don’t internalize their rejection. Your body is beautiful, desirable, and definitely worthy of pleasure. 😋🥰

A UK study published in the International Urogynecology Journal found that only 46% of participants correctly identified that a female has 3 holes in the external genitalia. 😬 Not great. We’re taught so desperately little about our bodies and so discouraged from exploring them that we don’t even know what we’ve got going on down there! Understanding your own anatomy (and getting educated on your partner’s anatomy) can boost pleasure 1000x!! So take a mirror, use your hands, and get comfy exploring! 🪞🕵🏽‍♀️ And if you really want to get informed (and inspired 😉), head to our website for our basics on pleasure and anatomy. What do you think? Could YOU correctly label a diagram of what lies beneath?

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